Wednesday, June 29, 2011
A Much More HAPPY and CONTENT, A ENLIGHTENED SaXXX
What is SaXXX about and Like, What Have I come to be Enlighted about in This Life?
by Sj Foru on Tuesday, June 28, 2011 at 2:47pm
You know? Everybody wants to make it big! I just want to (Live) make it! Big or Small it really doesn't matter to me! I live for every moment I get in life. People think I just arrived, I have lived everywhere and have had some of everything, and done so many things in my 45 yrs that some of u r still trying to do and get and that's all great, I say go for it! I did. You see I'm not a boaster, I'm just saying I'm Happy and Content with being who I am and doing whatever I do for fun and funds. I'm not a young girl looking to be the next top thing! and if your a young person and that's what you want then by all means, but as far as for me. People, I'm not looking to be a star, I have been and I am and always have been from birth!I don't look to the world for all those things that others think will make them look happy, better and/or bigger to others. I am Happy being and doing Simply Me. Cause I don't need the world DRAMA and it's fake thrills or people. All I need is air to breath, food to eat, shelter to lay my ass down and the love I give to myself everyday and also that of Gods which I get UNCONDITIONALLY each and everyday of my life. People life is good once you let go of running around in "The Rat Maze" looking for that MOLDY PIECE OF CHEESE ie (Lot's of money, that you will probably spend foolishly, then become Broke, Fast Cars that you will drive so fast showing off that you will dam near kill yourself and/or others in. oh Yeah and Lots of fake ass Friends (an ENTOURAGE) That will leave your ass and talk about you like a dog once you stop giving to them and/or letting them hang all over with/you, Clothing, Jewelery and all those things that if not managed well in this economy? will be MORE PROBLEMS/THAN MONEY TO YA! CAUSE The more you BUY the more your gonna have to GRIND to try and keep up with it ALL! LOL! Oh and God Forbid! you don't want everyone to see you in a modest home with a modest car and a savings that will do you well in the coming years. Cause The People of The World Have made Us all think the more the Bigger, The Better of a Person You Must Be! But That Is Just a LYE! and You Know it! (Don't Front!) You see for me, while everyone else was looking for cheese that the mice ate up while they was EGO TRIPPING! ( PUFFED UP) saying I'm the baddest this and I got the baddest that. I was looking for the EXIT DOOR!
I'm Not Trying to out do others, that is so not my style. I live my life MODEST and CARE FREE while putting my paper away for those rainy days. I'm not hurting to kill myself to get it all or be the baddest Chick, whoring, porning or otherwise. I do what I do to make ends meet! Not to knock anyone for doing whatever that makes them happy, I'm just saying this is and for me. Nor do I do what I do to get you all to Like Me Or even be like me? or me be like them? It's just not REALISTIC! and I it will never have an effect (Negativity) on my life. I won't let it! Cause I LOVE ME! I have 45yrs of training and Learning in "How To Care/Love MYSELF and " I Care NOT What OTHERs (Trifling/Gossiping/hateful) type people may Say Or Try to DO" and I still have a many beautiful years left to gain more wisdom/ knowledge. So there no need to try a mark me. People hate that I keep to myself, I do this for there safety and mine. Cause I'm not one to play games. And I'd rather be and go it alone then deal with peoples bullshit! All the games that are now being played in biz and or relationship wise.PS. Don't take what I'm saying personally, take it as what SaXXX is about and How I am. Be at Peace and CONTENT sometimes with yourself n the WORLD around you. I am Always, Finally! Sincerely!
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Should We Truly Believe These Emails? Hum? I Wonder
Subject: Fw: PLLLLEEEAAASSSEEE REEAADDD! IT WAS ON GOODMORNING America
Ladies and Gentlemen: This is not hoax. Please scroll down. Ok guys, my lawyer's paralegal sent this one to me and if it doesn't work, they are aware that we all will be coming to visit them for a law suit for false advertisement!J THIS TOOK TWO PAGES OF THE TUESDAYS USA TODAY - IT IS FOR REAL To all of my friends, I do not usually forward messages, but this is from my friend Pearl Sandborn and she really is an attorney. If she says that this will work - It will work. After all, What have you got to lose? I'm an attorney, And I know the law. This thing is for real. Rest assured AOL and Intel will follow through with their promises for fear of facing a multimillion-dollar class action suit similar to the one filed by Pepsi Co against General Electric not too long ago. Dear Friends: Please do not take this for a junk letter. Bill Gates sharing his fortune.. If you ignore this, You will repent later. ; Microsoft and AOL are now the largest Internet companies and in an effort to make sure that Internet Explorer remains the most widely used program, Microsoft and AOL are running an e-mail beta test.
When you forward this e-mail to friends, Microsoft can and will track it (If you are a Microsoft Windows user) For a two weeks time period. For every person that you forward this e-mail to, Microsoft will pay you $245.00 For every person that you sent it to that forwards it on, Microsoft will pay you $243.00 and for every third person that receives it, You will be paid $241.00. Within two weeks, Microsoft will contact you for your address and then send you a check.
Regards..
Charles S Bailey General Manager Field Operations 1-800-842-2332 Ext..1085 or 904-1085 or RNX 292-1085 Thought this was a scam myself, But two weeks after receiving this e-mail and forwarding it on.
Microsoft contacted me for my address and within days, I received a check for $24,800.00.
You need to respond before the beta testing is over. If anyone can afford this, Bill Gates is the man.
It's all marketing expense to him. Please forward this to as many people as possible. You are bound to get at least $10,000.00 We're not going to help them out with their e-mail beta test without getting a little something for our time. My brother's girlfriend got in on this a few months ago When I went to visit him for the Baylor/UT game, she showed me her check. It was for the sum of $4, 324.44 and was stamped 'Paid In Full'.
Cause if Not Dam if I didn't Get A lot of Email Address out Of People Sending Me This. Hey if you know Of anyone that Benefited from this Please hit me up and let me know.??????
Thursday, June 23, 2011
What the Hell Happen To SaXXX Lol!
I Love to Travel, I love to Party, and I also love doing the Nasty! When I'm not working on a video, or being a family woman. I off doing adventurous things such as the short video you'll see below! Lol! Nope SaXXX isn't out of the game, nor am I wash up. I can say I get tired of the same old fucking videos and the same click of people in the films over and over again. I mean How many times can we do the nasty and ways. So I like to ad a little fun to what it is that we are all so crazy about doing and That's Having a Fucking Great Time!
Just a lil something I discussed on my Face Book
See this is the public me it's what I do for a living. But My private me is just that Private. I keep it that way for several reason. One is I have children and grands, #2 I do know the Lord very well, in fact I belong to one of the biggest well know churches around. #3 I like my life private. Cause not all others will accept the things about you and you can't make them see it your way either.( but believe me they have there own set of shit with them too) That's stuff only GOD knows why you are or you do what you do! Right? Man Kind is full of cruelty and will judge and then try to fix you with what they know or think they know to be the truth. I learn this the hard way through allowing people not all but a few into my life, letting them see me, in all, my good days and bad ones, life in general. And those very people, Friends as some would call them. Turn my life into a living hell at times, I mean they intentionally set out to hurt me. until I had to with alot of thought, crying and pain let them and it all go. I have forgiven a lot But I will never forget. Lest I let that foolishness back in to hurt me again. Once you fuck me over I'm goneand I never laugh things off, I'm a SCORPIO, it's just not how I see things. If you went out to try and hurt me, talk bad about me, just basically meant me no good did harm to me and or my REP! I will never forget, but I never seek revenge, I just never fuck with you in any type way shape or form, not even in Business, I don't need money that bad or friends. You see we all have our different issue and coming from where I have been and the many things I have experience I have a few. But I never knew that the very people that are closes to you, the ones you in, you let see you in or at your worst, or maybe it's something you into and you don't want someone else to know but not the whole world, Right? Well that very person will take that think you trusted them with as a friend in confidence (it's just you and them that knows this thing) and they will gossip, run tell the world, U tube it, and all. Knowing for dam well that, that thing may destroy you, and what you have built up for yourself. Now I don't have a many things to hide. But I do keep somethings to self because Of my children and or just because I know what some would do with such information on me. Oh they know I'm an adult entertainer, but all the other stuff the things that may hurt the lives as the grow and go out into the world. I try to keep personal. You know? It makes me wonder how these nasty ass people live with themselves, how much hate do they really have for them selves that they would betray a friendship and or ridicule someone else issues and or weakness. They know for dam well that it will hurt that person they say they are friends with then why do it! Just because huh? So this is why I am strict about this type crap. Keep your private shit private have two account if need. You don't really want to hurt your your friends and of wife and or girlfriends with knowing certain things. Even if it's harmless fun, even if your my fan, women misunderstand a lot, but at the same time we are no bodies fool. So men, my Fans, friends, family and all who come to my page be smart. Somethings are better off not being known. If your Family is you top priority and you they should be, then always protect that by, keeping your fetishes and thrills that will hurt them to yourself. Why would you want to befriend my page with your kids picture as your profile pic guys? and or knowing that you family members have access to your Face book, the church members, oh a big one YOU FUCKING JOB? and so on... That's just plan STUPID. and Im tried of being deleted and or preach to, or having somebodies wife/girlfriend goggling my name getting my number and trying to ask me question on "why is your number or my man on your face book page"" Oh Yes Guys and Gals that the type crazy shit I deal with. You one time I even ask the women why call and ask me ask your unfaithful husband. Shit I left mine because I found out about his cheating this way and shit when I found out how much he was shelling out, I fucking went into biz for my dam self and I been doing just fine since, LOL! No Shit it's they truth. Lol! And yes I know it comes with the territory, but help me to save you from yourself. DON'T Sign up with your personal profile, make another one for the fun stuff you like to that no one else has access to. So you and I and everyone else can have an much more enjoyable time. STOP DOING STUPID SHIT LIKE THAT! Please. It's one of the reason I'm single and will stay this way, and I love be a loner, Cause I have gone through crazy shit that could have been avoided if assholes would think before they jerk off. Pun mented. Sorry if I offend but I'm telling you all the truth. I don't need the harrassment at all. Kisses! Ur Gal Pal SaXXX! I'm Just saying???
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
STAYING ALIVE And Enjoying SAFE SEX
This guide focuses on the basics of safer sex, and on how to make whatever precautions you choose feel as pleasurable as possible.
Safer sex precautions are obviously not necessary when neither you nor your
partner(s) have anything you could transmit to each other (and will be completely safe in your interactions with anyone else during the course of your relationship, and when birth control is not an issue, etc.), but in all other cases your health and peace of mind can be enhanced by playing safely.Intercourse
The single most effective thing you can do to stay healthy while being sexually active is to use latex condoms for intercourse (whether vaginal or anal). Not all condoms are made alike; men should experiment with different brands until they find the one they like best (many men prefer Kimono Microthins, which also taste fine for fellatio if you get them without Nonoxynol-9). When you put on a condom, pinch its tip as you unroll it (all the way down!) to prevent an air bubble from forming in the reservoir tip.
For intercourse, you should then put some water-based lube (such as I-D, For Play, Wet, Probe, or Astroglide) on the outside of the condom for comfort, mutual pleasure, and to keep the condom from tearing during sex (some men find that more sensation is
transmitted to them if they put a small amount of water-based or silicone-based lube INSIDE the tip of their condom before putting it on). It is very important for men to hold onto the base of their condom as they withdraw (i.e. after becoming soft) so it does not slip off.
For a while, health experts were recommending that people choose safer sex products
with Nonoxynol-9 to protect against HIV transmission: recent scientific evidence is resulting in this advice being formally retracted, and unless you are using Nonoxynol-9 as a contraceptive rather than for HIV prevention, it may be wise to cease using it entirely. If a condom fails during vaginal or anal intercourse, the receptive partner shouldn't douche; if any Nonoxynol-9 contraceptive foam is handy it MIGHT help for
him or her to insert it and leave it in for about 15 minutes, and it would certainly help to immediately remove the condom from inside the vagina or anus if it was left there. Men can give themselves a little extra protection after potentially being exposed to an STD by immediately visiting the restroom, urinating, and then possibly washing their genitals with an anti-bacterial soap. If unwanted pregnancy is a possible outcome of the condom failure, you should call 1-888-NOT-2-LATE to find out about emergency contraception in your area. It should be obvious that a new condom needs to be used for each new partner, and that condoms should not be reused. In addition, if you are going to switch from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse, you should put on a new condom to avoid causing vaginal infections.Oral Sex
Opinions differ on the use of safer-sex barriers for oral sex. It is clear that herpes can be transmitted from genitals to mouth or mouth to genitals during unprotected oral sex, but some people feel the risk is acceptably low outside of the most infectious period (which starts with the tingling "prodrome" sensations that precedes an outbreak, and continues to two weeks after the herpes sores go away).
You can on rare occasion pick up a bacterial infection by going down on someone who currently has a bacterial STD (typically Gonorrhea, more rarely Syphilis or Cancroids), but these can generally be cured with antibiotics once they are identified. It is clear that the risk of transmitting HIVis much, MUCH lower for unprotected oral sex than for unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse, and that the risk is MUCH lower for the person being sucked or licked than for the person doing the sucking or licking. For the person doing the sucking or licking, the risk of transmission is lower if your gums (and
lips/mouth/throat) are healthy, if you don't let men come in your mouth, and if you don't perform cunnilingus on a woman while she is menstruating.
Some sex educators recommend NOT flossing or brushing your teeth for an hour before giving unprotected oral sex (use Cool Mint Listerine or some other anti-bacterial mouthwash if you're concerned about bad breath or just want to freshen up), and
others recommend quickly looking over the genitals you're about to go down on for signs of contagious STDs (including genital warts, which can on rare occasion be transmitted from genitals to mouth).
If your policy for performing unprotected fellatio is to not let your partner come in
your mouth and he does so anyway, it's better to immediately spit than to either wait or swallow, and it may help (especially for bacterial STDs) to then go use an anti-bacterial or peroxide mouthwash. Pre-cum can contain HIV, and although not letting men come in your mouth SIGNIFICANTLY reduces your already low risk to even lower levels, if you are concerned about becoming infected via pre-cum while performing fellatio
you have two risk-reduction options: not taking the head of his penis in your mouth or using barriers for oral sex.
If you decide that your personal safety standards include barriers for oral sex, then you'll need to use latex condoms (without Nonoxynol-9) for fellatio, and either saran wrap or one of those "Glyde" dams for cunnilingus (for cunnilingus, put a little water-based lube on your partner's side of the barrier to increase the sensation transmitted to her). The same barrier techniques used for cunnilingus can also be used for analingus (rimming), where they should be considered essential if the person doing the licking is not immunized against hepatitis A, or if the person being licked may have a bacterial infection.Your Hands
If you've had your fingers in someone's vagina, or had someone come on your hands, then it is a good idea to wash your hands with hot water and anti-bacterial soap before touching your eyes or anyone else's genitals.
If your skin is compromised in any way, if you want to avoid needing to leave the scene to wash your hands, if you're going to be engaging in anal fisting or exposing yourself to any blood, or if you just want to be extra-safe, then try using latex "examination" gloves - they are available at most drug stores. If you have just had your ungloved fingers in somebody's ass, then you will want to be sure to clean your hands particularly thoroughly (especially under your fingernails!) before putting your them in or near your mouth.Safer Sex Kits
It is helpful to get a little hip pack for your safer-sex supplies, your smaller bottle of water-based lube, and anything else you commonly use. You might also want to pack a portable toothbrush and a travel-sized toothpaste tube in case you end up staying overnight somewhere.Vaccinations
There are two STDs for which permanent vaccines are available: hepatitis B and hepatitis A. Hepatitis B can be spread easily through
intercourse and (less easily) through oral sex or rimming, and hepatitis A is
easily spread through rimming. Getting these two vaccinations (which you
can do at the same time) would be an excellent idea if you do not
always use barriers for these activities.Birth Control
If you are going to be engaging in intercourse with someone of the opposite sex, birth control may be an issue. If the birth control that latex condoms offer is good enough for you, then you are set. If you want more protection than this, call Planned Parenthood (1-800-230-PLAN) and discuss the options.
Special doses of particular birth control pills can reduce the chance of pregnancy by 75% if taken within 72 hours of contraceptive failure; theEmergency Contraception Hotline at 1-888-NOT-2-LATE can tell you where to go to get them.
Treatment, Testing, Supplies, and Additional Information.
If you have additional questions about STDs or HIV, call the National STD Hotline at 1-800-227-8922 or visit http://www.thebody.com/ . Information about STD clinics in your
area can be found by calling this National STD Hotline or by visiting http://www.unspeakable.com/locator/nph-locator.cgi. As the bacterial STDs are usually curable with antibiotics and the incurable viral STDs (such as HIV, herpes, hepatitis, and HPV) are now more easily managed than ever, it is in your best interest to be tested if you think you might have been exposed to anything. If you require more detailed information on STD/HIV treatments, the best online document is the CDC's Guidelines for Treatment of Sexually Transmitted Disease at http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/1998_STD_Guidlines/1998_guidelines_for_the_treatment.htm .
This guide focuses on the basics of safer sex, and on how to make whatever precautions you choose feel as pleasurable as possible.
Safer sex precautions are obviously not necessary when neither you nor your
partner(s) have anything you could transmit to each other (and will be completely safe in your interactions with anyone else during the course of your relationship, and when birth control is not an issue, etc.), but in all other cases your health and peace of mind can be enhanced by playing safely.Intercourse
The single most effective thing you can do to stay healthy while being sexually active is to use latex condoms for intercourse (whether vaginal or anal). Not all condoms are made alike; men should experiment with different brands until they find the one they like best (many men prefer Kimono Microthins, which also taste fine for fellatio if you get them without Nonoxynol-9). When you put on a condom, pinch its tip as you unroll it (all the way down!) to prevent an air bubble from forming in the reservoir tip.
For intercourse, you should then put some water-based lube (such as I-D, For Play, Wet, Probe, or Astroglide) on the outside of the condom for comfort, mutual pleasure, and to keep the condom from tearing during sex (some men find that more sensation is
transmitted to them if they put a small amount of water-based or silicone-based lube INSIDE the tip of their condom before putting it on). It is very important for men to hold onto the base of their condom as they withdraw (i.e. after becoming soft) so it does not slip off.
For a while, health experts were recommending that people choose safer sex products
with Nonoxynol-9 to protect against HIV transmission: recent scientific evidence is resulting in this advice being formally retracted, and unless you are using Nonoxynol-9 as a contraceptive rather than for HIV prevention, it may be wise to cease using it entirely. If a condom fails during vaginal or anal intercourse, the receptive partner shouldn't douche; if any Nonoxynol-9 contraceptive foam is handy it MIGHT help for
him or her to insert it and leave it in for about 15 minutes, and it would certainly help to immediately remove the condom from inside the vagina or anus if it was left there. Men can give themselves a little extra protection after potentially being exposed to an STD by immediately visiting the restroom, urinating, and then possibly washing their genitals with an anti-bacterial soap. If unwanted pregnancy is a possible outcome of the condom failure, you should call 1-888-NOT-2-LATE to find out about emergency contraception in your area. It should be obvious that a new condom needs to be used for each new partner, and that condoms should not be reused. In addition, if you are going to switch from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse, you should put on a new condom to avoid causing vaginal infections.Oral Sex
Opinions differ on the use of safer-sex barriers for oral sex. It is clear that herpes can be transmitted from genitals to mouth or mouth to genitals during unprotected oral sex, but some people feel the risk is acceptably low outside of the most infectious period (which starts with the tingling "prodrome" sensations that precedes an outbreak, and continues to two weeks after the herpes sores go away).
You can on rare occasion pick up a bacterial infection by going down on someone who currently has a bacterial STD (typically Gonorrhea, more rarely Syphilis or Cancroids), but these can generally be cured with antibiotics once they are identified. It is clear that the risk of transmitting HIVis much, MUCH lower for unprotected oral sex than for unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse, and that the risk is MUCH lower for the person being sucked or licked than for the person doing the sucking or licking. For the person doing the sucking or licking, the risk of transmission is lower if your gums (and
lips/mouth/throat) are healthy, if you don't let men come in your mouth, and if you don't perform cunnilingus on a woman while she is menstruating.
Some sex educators recommend NOT flossing or brushing your teeth for an hour before giving unprotected oral sex (use Cool Mint Listerine or some other anti-bacterial mouthwash if you're concerned about bad breath or just want to freshen up), and
others recommend quickly looking over the genitals you're about to go down on for signs of contagious STDs (including genital warts, which can on rare occasion be transmitted from genitals to mouth).
If your policy for performing unprotected fellatio is to not let your partner come in
your mouth and he does so anyway, it's better to immediately spit than to either wait or swallow, and it may help (especially for bacterial STDs) to then go use an anti-bacterial or peroxide mouthwash. Pre-cum can contain HIV, and although not letting men come in your mouth SIGNIFICANTLY reduces your already low risk to even lower levels, if you are concerned about becoming infected via pre-cum while performing fellatio
you have two risk-reduction options: not taking the head of his penis in your mouth or using barriers for oral sex.
If you decide that your personal safety standards include barriers for oral sex, then you'll need to use latex condoms (without Nonoxynol-9) for fellatio, and either saran wrap or one of those "Glyde" dams for cunnilingus (for cunnilingus, put a little water-based lube on your partner's side of the barrier to increase the sensation transmitted to her). The same barrier techniques used for cunnilingus can also be used for analingus (rimming), where they should be considered essential if the person doing the licking is not immunized against hepatitis A, or if the person being licked may have a bacterial infection.Your Hands
If you've had your fingers in someone's vagina, or had someone come on your hands, then it is a good idea to wash your hands with hot water and anti-bacterial soap before touching your eyes or anyone else's genitals.
If your skin is compromised in any way, if you want to avoid needing to leave the scene to wash your hands, if you're going to be engaging in anal fisting or exposing yourself to any blood, or if you just want to be extra-safe, then try using latex "examination" gloves - they are available at most drug stores. If you have just had your ungloved fingers in somebody's ass, then you will want to be sure to clean your hands particularly thoroughly (especially under your fingernails!) before putting your them in or near your mouth.Safer Sex Kits
It is helpful to get a little hip pack for your safer-sex supplies, your smaller bottle of water-based lube, and anything else you commonly use. You might also want to pack a portable toothbrush and a travel-sized toothpaste tube in case you end up staying overnight somewhere.Vaccinations
There are two STDs for which permanent vaccines are available: hepatitis B and hepatitis A. Hepatitis B can be spread easily through
intercourse and (less easily) through oral sex or rimming, and hepatitis A is
easily spread through rimming. Getting these two vaccinations (which you
can do at the same time) would be an excellent idea if you do not
always use barriers for these activities.Birth Control
If you are going to be engaging in intercourse with someone of the opposite sex, birth control may be an issue. If the birth control that latex condoms offer is good enough for you, then you are set. If you want more protection than this, call Planned Parenthood (1-800-230-PLAN) and discuss the options.
Special doses of particular birth control pills can reduce the chance of pregnancy by 75% if taken within 72 hours of contraceptive failure; theEmergency Contraception Hotline at 1-888-NOT-2-LATE can tell you where to go to get them.
Treatment, Testing, Supplies, and Additional Information.
If you have additional questions about STDs or HIV, call the National STD Hotline at 1-800-227-8922 or visit http://www.thebody.com/ . Information about STD clinics in your
area can be found by calling this National STD Hotline or by visiting http://www.unspeakable.com/locator/nph-locator.cgi. As the bacterial STDs are usually curable with antibiotics and the incurable viral STDs (such as HIV, herpes, hepatitis, and HPV) are now more easily managed than ever, it is in your best interest to be tested if you think you might have been exposed to anything. If you require more detailed information on STD/HIV treatments, the best online document is the CDC's Guidelines for Treatment of Sexually Transmitted Disease at http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/1998_STD_Guidlines/1998_guidelines_for_the_treatment.htm .
The only element lacking in this document is good pictures of herpes sores (and symptoms caused by other STDs) for those who want to be able to identify them by sight; for pictures, visit http://www.thebody.com/sowadsky/symptoms/symptoms.html
Latex allergies are an increasing area of concern, particularly for health care workers. Fortunately, if you or your partner have any sort of latex sensitivity, non-latex alternatives for safer sex are available: Avanti condoms, Saran Wrap for cunnilingus and anallingus, and Nitrile gloves.
Have fun and enjoy it,
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